I'm also at Romance Books '4' Us sharing my plans for what would happen if I came into a big bunch of money. It could happen! I'm a believer in the law of attraction, defined by Wikipedia as "...the belief that "like attracts like" and that by focusing on positive or negative thoughts, one can bring about positive or negative results."
It's too easy to get stuck in thinking about bad and negative aspects of our life, but why not focus our energy and attention on what we want instead? It's not always easy, but I much prefer the positive way of thinking and enjoy the results when I do.