Why we don't want sex. Sometimes.

Guys, (and gals) when your woman shoots you down for a night of passion, sometimes, it's not you. It's us. Really.

Many nights we feel fat, crabby, bloated, ugly, flabby, stinky, everything except horny. Sometimes, we even feel like we should use a feminine hygiene product, like the one shown here. The ad is really cute (I try never to forget my V!) but I'm not wild about the implication that women should use anything more than soap and water to keep our lady parts clean and fresh.

With messages like this bombarding us, is it any wonder women don't feel hot and sexy all the time? That we worry about how we look, smell and taste? Yes, we do worry about these things when we get ready for sex. Oh sure, we try not to, but often we perceive ourselves as undesirable, which makes us depressed and not at all in the mood for love.

So sometimes, sweetheart, when we say no, it's not because we don't want you. It's because we think we're ___________. See the list above. If you're up to the challenge, convince us otherwise. Come on!

Happy Valentines' Day!

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